Busy, Busy, Busy

I am a busy lady! It’s no wonder that after running my own business, maintaining a social media presence, spending time with my family, walking 2 dogs, supporting various charities and trying to find some personal time, there isn’t any time to spare! Sometimes I even wonder how I’m going to make it to the end of a busy week. But somehow I cope and everything gets done.

My business, Tail Wags Helmet Covers, was started 4 ½ years ago when my sons were teenagers. To a certain extent they were already independent in that they were able to get themselves to and from school on public transit. They didn’t need a lot of help with homework except for the odd time when they’d ask me to quiz them before a test. Most after-school activities were located at school so there wasn’t a lot of additional driving to and from activities. That said, they still had a tough time adjusting to my new work schedule because I went from being a full-time mom to a full-time business owner. They missed the homemade meals and the time I used to spend with them watching our favourite television shows, playing board games and just hanging out. It was also an adjustment for my husband. He had to pick up the slack around the house. Luckily, he was supportive of my decision to work again and, therefore, pitched in because I couldn’t have done it without him.

Even I didn’t realize how much was involved in running a business. Of course, I knew I would be designing and sewing new styles as well as selling my product. But I certainly didn’t realize approximately 50% of my time would be spent on marketing. And I didn’t know where to find wholesale suppliers for fabrics and notions or who to ask about export taxes and duties. In that sense, the learning curve was huge. But I wasn’t worried about making mistakes along the way, as I knew some errors were inevitable. I just plunged in headfirst and, fortunately, most of my decisions were good ones.

People often wonder if I have a business degree (it certainly would have helped) but unfortunately I took a Bachelor of Arts in Economics as well as a Bachelor of Education. The Economics degree was a waste of time but my education degree has proven to be a great asset. Teaching gave me an appreciation for the importance of imaginary play and dress-up in early childhood. So when I was trying to think of ways to make it FUN for kids to wear their safety helmets (this is the premise behind my products), I combined my teaching instinct together with my creative skills as a costume designer and established Tail Wags helmet covers.

So why am I running a blog, twitter and facebook site as well as maintaining my company’s web site? It’s because in today’s market, the social media should be an integral part of every company’s marketing plan. That said, I’m not always blogging about my business. In fact, I’m often writing about raising 2 special needs kids, my dogs or whatever else strikes me as interesting during the day. Initially I was reluctant to engage the social media world but I’ve grown to enjoy the online camaraderie of the blog groups of which I am a member. It’s an incredibly supportive world at your fingertips!

My dogs are my passion … second only to my sons! They are the first to greet me in the morning with a wet kiss and welcome me home with a wagging tail. My eldest dog even brings me my slippers. Yes, they are a lot of responsibility but I can’t imagine my home without them. Besides, I love walking my dogs in the ravine every morning. It keeps me active, yanks me away from my desk and gives me a chance to reflect on life.

I have always been active in volunteer work because it’s important to give back to one’s community but, obviously, my time is limited these days. However, I’m able to support various charities through my business by donating 25% of sales when I attend a charity fundraising event. One of my favourite charities is Ontario Track 3. They are a volunteer based organization that teaches special needs children and youth to ski and snowboard. If you’re a skier, you’ve probably noticed them on the slopes with a student in a “sit ski”. Because of the dedication of these volunteers, kids who might otherwise be restricted to a wheelchair are discovering ability through snow sports.

So how do I recharge my batteries in order to maintain my crazy schedule? One of the things that suffered when I started my business was my fitness routine. I used to be a regular at the gym but that was one of the first things to go. In order to keep myself fit in the shortest time possible, I’ve hired a personal trainer twice a week. By keeping fit, my energy levels are higher!  I’m also an avid reader. I meet with a group of friends once a month for our book club but I typically read 3 novels a month instead of the required one. Reading is my way of turning off the world late at night. I also get together with a monthly business women’s support group. They are my friends but we’re also mentors for each other in our respective businesses. And, of course, I try to spend as much time as possible with my family especially during the family dinner hour.

Are you a busy person too? What are you juggling and what’s your secret to keeping a balance?

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I Love September

Am I the only one out there who’s glad it’s September? I’m not saying I’m pleased summer is over but there’s something exciting about the arrival of Fall each year. My energy is way up, there’s a spring in my step, and I feel ready to take on the world (or at least my part of it). For example, I’ve been procrastinating over the growing to-do list piling up on my desk during the summer … well I started tackling it this morning with renewed vigor.

I’m about to launch 2 new Animal helmet cover designs … an adorable Moose and a ‘cuter than cute’ Pink Poodle with pink bows in her hair/fur. By the way, if anyone has any name suggestions for these designs, I’d love to hear your ideas.

My Fall marketplace events start up again in one week and will keep me hopping across the province until Christmas. If you want to know where Tail Wags will be, there’s a complete list of marketplace events on the Tail Wags web site. Of course, by the time the holidays roll around, I’ll be completely wiped out. The 10-day “One of a Kind” event that starts at the end of November leaves me feeling comatose for one week afterwards. The days are long (10 am to 9 pm every day) and my booth is swamped the entire time with customers. Obviously I’m not complaining but I think a holiday would be a good idea after these events wrap up!

What about you? What’s your favourite season?

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Are We Pushing Our Kids Too Hard?

Here’s a YouTube video of a 6-year-old girl, Annika Vrklan, who is winning awards across California for her skateboarding achievements. In fact, she recently won a Guinness World Record. The training involved to compete at this level is intense because she’s competing in the under 13 category. Is it too much for someone so young? The same question can be asked of young gymnasts, hockey players, pianists, mathematicians, and chess players just to name a few. Are the parents of these kids robbing them of their childhood by pushing them at such an early age?

I don’t have any definitive answers to these questions. First of all, I think you have to look carefully at each individual child: are they happy, keeping up with their schoolwork, and maintaining healthy friendships with their peers? Take for example, Annika Vrklan. I know she’s a straight A student who has lots of friends, a great sense of humour and lots of excess energy. Here’s how she describes herself on her Facebook page: “I am a six-year-old girl athlete: skateboarder, snowboarder, surfer, gymnast, soccer player, diver, swimmer, ballet dancer etc. I love to play with Barbies, love my family. I love to compete and learn something new every time I skate/snow/surf/tumble!” She certainly doesn’t sound like a stressed out young girl to me! In fact, I know that Annika’s parents are not pushing her. They are actually the first to put limits on the amount of time spent training in order to ensure that Annika keeps a balanced schedule. Annika is just one of those naturally gifted athletes and it would be a crime to hold her back from what she loves!

Here’s another prodigy, Kim Ung-Yong. By the age of four he was already able to read in Japanese, Korean, German and English. At his 5th birthday, he solved complicated differential and integral calculus problems. At the age of 7, NASA invited him to America. He finished his university studies, eventually getting a Ph.D. in physics before he was 15. Kim was listed in the Guinness Book of World Records under “Highest IQ”, with a score of over 210. I could keep listing his accomplishments but I’m sure you’ve got the point!

There are literally 1000’s of examples of kids who are clearly gifted and it would be wrong for their parents to hold them back! But there are also examples of the opposite extreme. Obviously not all kids are geniuses or super athletes or talented musicians. Most of us are just average people with average capabilities. And that’s okay! After all, how many rocket scientists do we need in the world? But our parents still want the best for us and want to give us as many opportunities as possible. My parents encouraged me to take piano lessons. At first, I liked them but soon started to hate the weekly lessons and daily practice required. I started finding every excuse not to go. It was years later that we discovered my piano teacher was an alcoholic and that explained her mood swings and verbally abusive manner. Needless to say, my parents agreed to let me stop. I just wasn’t cut out to be a pianist.

Where do you draw the line between exposing kids to plenty of different hobbies and sports and just letting kids be kids? Again, I believe you have to really listen to what your kids are saying – both verbally and non-verbally. Do your kids fight you when it’s time for their lessons or soccer nights? Are they the ones reminding you they’ve got a hockey practice at 7:30 am the next day or are you the one dragging them out of bed on a regular basis to attend?

Clearly some kids are over-programmed. Add homework to that equation and your kids (and you) are going to feel overwhelmed! Childhood shouldn’t be stressful. Kids will experience plenty of stress when they join the work force as adults. Why should they experience that pressure when they’re young?

In summary, I think all parents need to go back to the questions I posed at the beginning of this article: Are your kids happy, keeping up with their school work and maintaining healthy friendships? If not, it’s time to re-evaluate what they’re juggling each week.

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Isn’t Aging FUN?

Isn’t getting older fun? It’s not the new gray hairs that bug me. I think they actually look like very natural highlights in my light brown hair. Or the decrease in my metabolism. I’m saving a fortune on groceries now that I’m eating less!

What is upsetting me is the colonoscopy I’ll have to endure in a few weeks. Age 50 is the age at which doctors recommend this procedure. For me, it’s an even bigger necessity because my mom was diagnosed with colon cancer one year ago. Not to worry, she’s been given a clean bill of health after the surgery. But given that she also dealt with uterine cancer, I really can’t take any chances. So I met with the doctor 2 days ago to discuss what’s involved and what’s required as advance preparation for this procedure. I’ll save you the gory details except to say that it requires consuming nothing but clear liquids and a very foul tasting drink 24 hours before the operation. Essentially it’s “Liquid Plumber” for humans!

And what’s with the acne back all over again? I thought I’d dealt with more than my share of zits in my teenage years. Having them again at my age is just not fair. At this stage of my life, I expected to be purchasing Clearasil for my teenage sons not for me. People try to tell me it’s a good thing my skin is so oily because it means less wrinkles but I’m tired of buying cosmetic concealers to cover up the blemishes.

One more thing … when will my body figure out I have no intention of having any more kids? 37 years of menstrual cycles and I’m still like clockwork. Haven’t I spent enough on tampons already?

But enough of my grumblings! I’m healthy, happy and in great shape. I have more energy than people half my age. And when it comes to aging, it sure beats the alternative!

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Going GREEN This School Year!

Everyone is getting on the GREEN bandwagon and I’m the first to applaud this initiative. After all, it’s in our best interests to reduce waste and decrease our dependence on scarce natural resources. With back to school on everyone’s mind, I’ve put together a GREEN checklist for parents:

  • An obvious way to reduce waste is to send packed lunches in re-useable containers. When I used to teach, the mountains of garbage in the lunchroom always appalled me.
  • Label your kids’ stuff! It saves having to re-buy school supplies and clothing if your child’s misplaced items get returned to you. I highly recommend Mabel’s Labels, www.mabel.ca, as a great product (the labels actually stick!).
  • Buy used textbooks. It will save you a ton of money because used books sell for 50% of the original cost but, more importantly, re-using products reduces the amount of stuff that ends up in our landfill sites.
  • Encourage teachers NOT to re-order the latest edition of textbooks each year. Usually, there are only minor changes with each new edition so the only people benefitting from this practice are the book publishers.
  • Ask if your children can submit their homework via email or portable USB drive in order to help reduce the paper trail.
  • Encourage your child to ride their bike or walk to school and make sure they lock it up properly when they get there. Unless they have a huge project to hand in, there’s no reason to drive them to school. Even on rainy days, kids won’t melt in the rain. Snow is also not a good excuse for driving because it’s even more fun to walk home on a snowy day. It may take longer to get home because of the snowball fights and snow angels but who cares! What’s the rush when you’re a kid?
  • Please make sure your child always wears their safety helmet when riding their bike. Worried they may lose their safety helmet … that’s another way Mabel’s Labels can help!
  • Do you have anything else you’d like to add to my list? Would love to hear from you with your suggestions and comments!
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